While I want to make this blog all about happy moments, that's not the reality of marriage. My wife and I had a lot of petty fights before, and we are having one again right now.
It started last night when I went home late from playing basketball. I knew something was wrong the moment our lips touched. It's not the usual warm feeling that you get when you kiss your love one. Instead, I felt coldness. I ate dinner alone. Took a shower. And when I'm finally settled, she was already tucked in bed. We were both silent the whole night. So unlikely of our personalities. You will know something is not right. Having a bigger ego than she has which I am not proud of, she started a conversation which I thought would clear things up. Unfortunately, it did not. It went on till this morning before she finally told me what she's upset about. Apparently it was all a misunderstanding. It was never about me being late from basketball. It was about her being emotionally and physically tired and not being there for her just added to that. I was so focused on myself but it's actually not about me. Now that everything is clear, I'm looking forward to making-up with her as I missed her so much. Moral of the story, communication is really important.
Thank you God for continuously making our relationship stronger.
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