Sunday, May 31, 2009

Prenup That's Technically Postnup


I'm an Adam Sandler fan and his role in the movie Anger Management was the first thing that popped into my head when I'm thinking of our (my wife and I) prenup two days ago. I found myself in Adam's character not mostly because I always keep my anger to myself, but because I am kind of uncomfortable kissing my special someone in public. I must say I have graduated from that uneasiness as i smack my wife all around the city and in the middle of Clark Quay. We started at the Botanical Gardens at about 4 in the afternoon as it also took time for my wife getting dressed and putting on her make-up. We had dinner at the Food Palace at about 7 in the evening as we were exhausted from endless snapshots. We finished at around 10p in the middle of the bars in CQ. I guess what I realized is that, it's not because I was anti-PDA because I was not, it's more of who you're with and there's nothing more comfortable than being beside your partner. I'm at work now and so is she and now that we're not office mates anymore like we used to be, I'll just have to wait for three more hours to see her again at home. I hope she was able to get a copy of our photos from her photographer friends as I can't wait to see how it all went out.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Home

My home is where my wife is.

Friday, May 15, 2009

Watchman

Watching has been my passion eversince I can remember. Whether it be movies, series or plays, I'd always prefer them over other stuff like reading. Nothing can top it but to do it with your love one.

My wife and I if we have time, usually watch a movie or an episode of a TV series before we go to bed. It has become our habit to always watch together. Sometimes, I won't watch a particular movie even if I want to because I know it would be better if I watch it with her. So I will wait for the time that we're both available to see the movie. And when the time comes, I could tell myself that I did the right thing.

In life, there are a lot of things that we want and we can get right away. But there's a big difference if you think about others before yourself. It may not seem the right decision at the moment, but it will be when the right time comes. There's no shame in waiting. Patience is a virtue. Put others first and God will get back at you a thousand folds more.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

545


545 may just be an ordinary number for a lot of people, but for me, it represents the most significant time in my life.

On the 5th hour after noon of the 4th day of the 5th month, my wife and I became one. I slipped on her finger, our white gold wedding ring, and she did the same for me afterwards. Exactly a year before, May 4 at 5p, i gave her a green ring for no apparent reason. I just felt I wanted to give her a ring that time so I did. It was the first time I gave anyone a ring, and we were just friends. Coincidence? I don't think so. Although I didn't plan anything about it, I believe someone has planned it for me, for us.

I am amazed everytime I think about it. You may not understand what happens to you today but someday, at the right time, God will enlighten you. He will show you how grand His plan is for you. And then you'll realize that everything happens for a reason and the reason is for your own good.